Note To My Kids – See What I Put Up With!
Mother's Day is Sunday, May 10th. If you didn't know this already...Shame! It's no secret that I have a lot of kiddos. If you didn't know this already...Shame! I have 6, to be exact. Never a dull moment and as I think of all the things I have had to endure in this journey called "Motherhood", I deserve far more than some school made project. I deserve a Mercedes or at least a trip to Bora Bora.
Let me share with you just a few things that I've experienced, just this year alone:
- Here's a school poem my oldest wrote about his sister: I have a sister named Emma, Who to me, smells like a llama. Her blabber mouth is so big, she eats like a pig, I think this poem is going to cause a lot of drama. That was a fun fight to diffuse (Note sarcasm)
- Ever heard of the game you play on a slide "Bumper Cars"...well, my creative little dickens came up with a similar one called "don't clog the toilet"...do you need an explanation? The stuck up moms at the playground were impressed (note sarcasm)
- Phone call from school...my child swallowed a paperclip
- Phone call from school...my other child put paper in his ear and it's stuck
- Phone call from school...another child broke his collar bone in an epic game of tuck and roll
- Youngest child came up to me the other day. She got a lesson in anatomy from her older siblings. She informed me that girls have "jay jays" and boys have "tallywhacks".
- I spoil the lil spawns by taking them to Disney/Universal. Their way of saying "Thanks mom, You're the best"...is by 1 puking at Magic Kingdom, 1 puking at Medieval Times, 1 puking at Universal Studios & 1 puking at Hooters. (Yes..Hooters..don't judge me)
- Let's not forget that they always exceed their daily quota of "Mum, mum, mumma, Mom".
OK...I've got a confession. I'm not as perfect as some might think...OK, as I might think. I definitely cut corners when it comes to parenting. For example:
- I will "accidentally" blurt out the answer to my son's math homework...just to get it done quicker.
- When I'm too lazy to cook, I will just add cooked hamburg to canned spaghetti and give it a creative name.
- When my daughter told me about the jay jays and tallywhacks...all I could do was laugh, give her a fist bump and say "Yup". I should have corrected her.
- When my oldest was little and I wanted him to come inside because it was getting late, I'd tell him the monsters come out 7pm. Success each time!
- I use the same above excuse at bedtime...if they get out of bed, the monsters will come out of the closets. Success each time! (The clincher: They don't have closets)
- When my 8-year-old son came to me with a "really bad" stomachache, I told him "Buck up bucko...you're fine". Turned out to be appendicitis.
- When my children were babies...and I questioned if they had an ear infection...I'd yank on their ear to see if they'd scream. If they didn't...they didn't mind. If they did scream...mystery solved, am I right?
Still think I deserve a Mercedes or a trip to Bora Bora? Ok, probably not. But I do the best I can as a parent...and that's all I can do. Happy Mother's to anyone who plays the role in a child's life.